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Your wedding day is going to be a flash of fun, emotion, and excitement.  Often times there is so much commotion going on that you loose sight of what this special day is all about; the intimate connection between the two of you.    Every couple has their own way of saying “I love you”.  It is important to show your significant other how much you care about them every day, even your wedding day.  Make sure to incorporate fun and even quirky expressions of love and even lust throughout the big day.  Here are 10 ways to do so:

1.  Arrange for your fiancé’s favorite food item to surprise them when there is some down time.

2.  Purchase a card beforehand and have his close family members and friends write a little something to show their support and good wishes for the future.

3. Sport matching underwear for a sexy little secret between the two of you.

4. Buy a small gift that goes along with an inside joke that only you two share and leave it for him to find. 

5.  Come up with a code word between you and him, using it when you feel stressed out, excited or just because. 

6. Love notes are timeless and perfect ways to express what you’re feeling while apart; especially if you two are waiting till the ceremony to see one another.  Have a member of your bridal party or a family member run a note over to them while they’re getting ready.

7. Videotape yourself beforehand and make it a movie about how you met and your lives up until this point.   It will comfort him to see your face before you walk down the aisle.

8.  If you choose to not see each other before, to settle the wedding day jitters have your groom meet you at the door.  Resist the urge to take a peak and let your hand do the peaking.  Have his hand meet yours and take the opportunity to comfort one another.

9. Steal his beverage of choice before the morning of and write a short note or symbol on the inside of the cap.  He’ll have a thoughtful surprise awaiting his thirst. 

10. Have something small to hold in your hand like a pebble or a piece of fabric, and squeeze or rub it when feeling nervous or stressed out.  Give him the same, letting him know that you’ll have yours with you as well.  When you hit the aisle, let the small item drop, letting your worries fall to the floor with it.

by Big City Bride  - Wedding Consultant